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How to heal and avoid a D&C after a natural miscarriage tragically and unexpectedly occurs so that a hospital visit is not necessary.

I recently experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage. Instead of opting for a hospital visit and invasive D&C, I chose to have a natural miscarriage and let nature take its course at home.
D&C stands for ādilation and curettageā. It is a surgical technique where a doctor forcibly dilates the cervix and clears the uterine lining using an instrument called a curette.
A D&C is not a pleasant experience, to put it mildly! Avoiding it using natural methods is a highly desirable alternative.
Natural Miscarriage Story
I was almost 12 weeks along when I miscarried, so it was almost like a mini-birth. I was lucky that I have experienced a live, home birth when my daughter was born over two years ago. That, combined with past experiences with miscarriage, helped me to not be afraid of the process.
I was very thankful to do everything at home (as opposed to a birth centerĀ or hospital). The physical environment was an important part of my overall healing.
Unfortunately for me, after the worst had passed, I continued to bleed and have intermittent contractions. After two full weeks from the time that I passed the baby and placenta, I went back to my OB to get an ultrasound to see if I had retained some piece of the placenta.
I was also fighting a cold virus and showing symptoms of an internal infection in my uterus. My blood was beginning to have a foul odor to it.
The doctor confirmed that I had indeed retained some tissue. Later that day, at my family practice doctorās office, I had a vaginal exam and my blood drawn to be tested. My iron levels were great, but my white blood count was low indicating an infection was beginning to take root.
My family practice doctor is very natural minded and I respect him very much, so when he suggested I take antibiotics, I listened.
I hate taking antibiotics and try to avoid them as much as I can, but I felt like the antibiotics were the lesser of two evils when weighing the risks of a D&C. (1)
Looking back, if I had been in a better mindset (thinking right and not consumed with grief) I probably would have thought to pull out the natural remedies sooner to avoid having to take antibiotics. But only hindsight is 20/20, and hopefully, this post will help someone else in the same situation.
He gave me three days to pass the rest of the tissue on my own or I would have to go to the hospital.
I left his office thinking I may have āfailedā at this pregnancy, but I am sure not going to āfailā at having a natural miscarriage. I pulled out my type A, over-ambitious personality and got to work figuring out all the natural remedies that help complete a miscarriage.
Over a three-day period, I did many different remedies to help me expel the last of the tissue. And sure enough, it worked. I completed the miscarriage on my own and did not need a D&C.
Hallelujah!
Remedies and Therapies to Avoid D&C
Here are the remedies I tried to avoid a hospital D&C. The good news is, they worked!
They are listed below in no particular order.
- Tea with Dong Quai in it. I drank Traditional Medicine Womenās Moon Cycle tea. I also drank some plain organicĀ raspberry leaf teaĀ (I like this one)Ā which is a hugely beneficial herb for uterine health.
- Cinnamon. I couldnāt really find exactly the dosage to take, so I just sprinkled freshĀ cinnamon on everything I could. Note that whether it isĀ cassia or Ceylon cinnamon really doesnāt matter. The Womenās Moon Cycle tea also has some in it. It tastes great in a glass of raw milkĀ or on a piece of bread slathered with butter. If you want to be bad, sprinkle on some sugar and you are in for a treat. Itās also great with cumin on a roast in a slow cooker such as a clay pot.
- Acupuncture. My acupuncture doctor did an hour-long treatment to help me expel everything. You can do pressure points at home if you prefer. They are mostly all in your ankles and shins. There is one on your hand as well, the fleshy part in between your first finger and thumb. Basically, all those points that you stay away from when you are pregnant.Ā Stimulating them is good for expelling everything from the uterus as well as acupuncture for labor. I recommend just massaging the area and whenever you find a tender spot, rub the heck out of it, even if it hurts a bit.
- Cupping. She also did a technique called cupping. Cupping is known to release congestion and help things that are stuck, physically or energetically, unstick. (2)
- Energy healing. I had a session with an energy healer and I realized that part of the reason I was holding on to that last bit of tissue was an emotional reason. I emotionally was not ready to fully let go of the pregnancy and my body was reacting to my emotions by holding on to the last bit of tissue.
- Affirmations. After the energy healing session, I told my body over and over again to let go and release. I also repeated over and over again, āI am healed. I am healthy.ā
- Homeopathy. Both Sabina and Sepia are helpful for naturally completing a miscarriage. I did Sepia because not only does it help expel the tissue, it helps expel the grief. My homeopathic doctor warned me that it would make me want to curl up in a ball and cry, a lot, and not to be alarmed. I sort of brushed him off and then later that day, I went to a yoga class. Showing up late to said yoga class late, the only spot left was smack dab in the middle of the room, next to the instructor. Just my luck! And sure enough, it only took one sun salutation and there I was, the crazy person, silently sobbing in childās pose for the rest of the class. Super embarrassing. So if you take Sepia, stay home!
- Herbs. Black and Blue Cohosh. I had these on hand and was going to do this at the last moment. These herbs are so bad tasting that I really did not want to have to drink them. Luckily I didnāt have to. These are the same herbs you can help to induce a full-term pregnancy. They are like a natural version of the inducement drug Pitocin. Also, a friend told me that these herbs can be found homeopathically, and they are called Caulphyllum and Cimicifuga. Incidentally, herbs can be a great friend for natural birth control as well as enhancing fertility when you are ready to try again.
Itās been over a week now since my ādeadlineā and I stopped bleeding on that very day!
I have had no more pain or blood, which I am very, very happy about. With the physical process complete, I can finally start to move on emotionally.
I do hope that this helps anyone going through a miscarriage and looking for information about how to avoid a D&C. There is not very much online about it, and it is good to know that you can heal and complete it on your own without having to go to the hospital.
(1) D&C After a Miscarriage
(2) What is Cupping?
D&E is for a larger baby – E is extraction
Thank you for posting. I too had a miscarriage in October at 11 weeks. I unfortunately had to have a D&C. My dr let me try it naturally for a week before setting the appointment for the procedure. I used acupuncture, red raspberry leaf, parsley suposatory to open cervix, and black cohosh, I could not find blue. I also told my body it was ok to let go. While I did spot, I never passed tissue and ended up having the D&C. It is defiantly something I never want to do again.
Sometimes it can takes weeks for a miscarriage to begin and that waiting can be torture. I am so sorry for your loss.
I thought it was a D&E for miscarriages.
D and C is correct and stands for Dilation and Curettage
I was so blessed to have a homebirth midwife talk me through my miscarriage. I did go to ER for confirmation that it was a miscarriage and couldn’t be stopped but I was stunned at how intense the contractions were for being 9 weeks along. Honestly I was grieving so much that the thought of going to a Dr for a D&C never crossed my mind. The ER did ask me to follow up with a Dr, but I never did. I couldn’t bear to tell one more person what had happened. I would never go through that alone with kids at home again though. It was way too intense physically and emotionally to be sole caregiver.
That is wonderful. I had the help of a wonderful midwife as well. I know what you mean about going in for a follow up. The last place I wanted to be was in that damn OB office with that damn ultrasound machine. I agree, trying to care for my daughter was the hardest part. I pretty much just checked out for a couple of weeks, I feel really guilty about it, but hopefully no real emotional damage was done to her.
My D&C was definitely necessary. I miscarried naturally at home, but had major bleeding as well. If I was smart, I would have gone to the hospital much sooner. I waited well past a month, and was still bleeding! After the D&C, everything was fine again (other than my emotional state).
I agree, some are necessary. Glad you recovered physically from the D&C with ease.
Really important post! Thank you so much. I was shocked to discover that there is little to no information on this subject when I went through my miscarriage. I was also surprised to find out how many women shared my experience. Thank you.
I know it is shocking how little information is out there, even on the web.
thank you for posting that as I did the same thing and honoured to find someone else that did
Thank you for reading Sara!
I had a natural miscarriage as well, and luckily it was a pretty easy process. It was the mental part that I had the hardest time with.
So glad the physical process was easy for you. I agree the mental/emotional part can be the hardest part.
Hey… Please give me info on how to let my girl friend have a natueral miscarrage ASAP PLEASE….
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Hi, can you help me with some tips on how to induce a miscarriage safely and successfully? I am under 5 weeks pregnant
I recently had a miscarriage at 10 weeks, and I agree emotional part is the hardest! It may sound a little cooky, but I made sure to let our baby know that it was okay to go and that we would be okay and that I was releasing it into the arms of God…
I don’t know for sure, but I think it had something to do with us having a natural miscarriage with no complications at all.
Thanks for the post…so sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss too, Kimberly. And that does not sound cooky at all!
Hi my name is maxine and im 10 weeks and 1 day pregnant I just found out that idlf I have this baby I would die what should I do should I try to have a misscarraige or should I do an abortion please let me know because I cant have this baby
I miscarried my 5th (5 months into the pregnancy) a few months ago and it was the single most dramatic thing I’ve ever dealt with in my life. I did not go to a doctor, and looked up as much as I could. Even though I stopped bleeding and had no other issues, this information would have helped! Glad it’s out there now for others to see and read!
So sorry for your loss, Aimee. I am glad this information is out there now too.
I know of a very young girl who had a miscarriage at home on her own. š From what I understand she has not been to the doctors and has not told her parents. I herd about this through a third party and feel for this young girl. I also have a few questions and am not sure who to turn too! Can you help?
I am 6 days late from my period. It could be from mamy reasons. I had an overian cyst removed. I took a plan b pill and started my birth control pills the same day. Any advice?