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How to heal and avoid a D&C after a natural miscarriage tragically and unexpectedly occurs so that a hospital visit is not necessary.
I recently experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage. Instead of opting for a hospital visit and invasive D&C, I chose to have a natural miscarriage and let nature take its course at home.
D&C stands for ādilation and curettageā. It is a surgical technique where a doctor forcibly dilates the cervix and clears the uterine lining using an instrument called a curette.
A D&C is not a pleasant experience, to put it mildly! Avoiding it using natural methods is a highly desirable alternative.
Natural Miscarriage Story
I was almost 12 weeks along when I miscarried, so it was almost like a mini-birth. I was lucky that I have experienced a live, home birth when my daughter was born over two years ago. That, combined with past experiences with miscarriage, helped me to not be afraid of the process.
I was very thankful to do everything at home (as opposed to a birth centerĀ or hospital). The physical environment was an important part of my overall healing.
Unfortunately for me, after the worst had passed, I continued to bleed and have intermittent contractions. After two full weeks from the time that I passed the baby and placenta, I went back to my OB to get an ultrasound to see if I had retained some piece of the placenta.
I was also fighting a cold virus and showing symptoms of an internal infection in my uterus. My blood was beginning to have a foul odor to it.
The doctor confirmed that I had indeed retained some tissue. Later that day, at my family practice doctorās office, I had a vaginal exam and my blood drawn to be tested. My iron levels were great, but my white blood count was low indicating an infection was beginning to take root.
My family practice doctor is very natural minded and I respect him very much, so when he suggested I take antibiotics, I listened.
I hate taking antibiotics and try to avoid them as much as I can, but I felt like the antibiotics were the lesser of two evils when weighing the risks of a D&C. (1)
Looking back, if I had been in a better mindset (thinking right and not consumed with grief) I probably would have thought to pull out the natural remedies sooner to avoid having to take antibiotics. But only hindsight is 20/20, and hopefully, this post will help someone else in the same situation.
He gave me three days to pass the rest of the tissue on my own or I would have to go to the hospital.
I left his office thinking I may have āfailedā at this pregnancy, but I am sure not going to āfailā at having a natural miscarriage. I pulled out my type A, over-ambitious personality and got to work figuring out all the natural remedies that help complete a miscarriage.
Over a three-day period, I did many different remedies to help me expel the last of the tissue. And sure enough, it worked. I completed the miscarriage on my own and did not need a D&C.
Hallelujah!
Remedies and Therapies to Avoid D&C
Here are the remedies I tried to avoid a hospital D&C. The good news is, they worked!
They are listed below in no particular order.
- Tea with Dong Quai in it. I drank Traditional Medicine Womenās Moon Cycle tea. I also drank some plain organicĀ raspberry leaf teaĀ (I like this one)Ā which is a hugely beneficial herb for uterine health.
- Cinnamon. I couldnāt really find exactly the dosage to take, so I just sprinkled freshĀ cinnamon on everything I could. Note that whether it isĀ cassia or Ceylon cinnamon really doesnāt matter. The Womenās Moon Cycle tea also has some in it. It tastes great in a glass of raw milkĀ or on a piece of bread slathered with butter. If you want to be bad, sprinkle on some sugar and you are in for a treat. Itās also great with cumin on a roast in a slow cooker such as a clay pot.
- Acupuncture. My acupuncture doctor did an hour-long treatment to help me expel everything. You can do pressure points at home if you prefer. They are mostly all in your ankles and shins. There is one on your hand as well, the fleshy part in between your first finger and thumb. Basically, all those points that you stay away from when you are pregnant.Ā Stimulating them is good for expelling everything from the uterus as well as acupuncture for labor. I recommend just massaging the area and whenever you find a tender spot, rub the heck out of it, even if it hurts a bit.
- Cupping. She also did a technique called cupping. Cupping is known to release congestion and help things that are stuck, physically or energetically, unstick. (2)
- Energy healing. I had a session with an energy healer and I realized that part of the reason I was holding on to that last bit of tissue was an emotional reason. I emotionally was not ready to fully let go of the pregnancy and my body was reacting to my emotions by holding on to the last bit of tissue.
- Affirmations. After the energy healing session, I told my body over and over again to let go and release. I also repeated over and over again, āI am healed. I am healthy.ā
- Homeopathy. Both Sabina and Sepia are helpful for naturally completing a miscarriage. I did Sepia because not only does it help expel the tissue, it helps expel the grief. My homeopathic doctor warned me that it would make me want to curl up in a ball and cry, a lot, and not to be alarmed. I sort of brushed him off and then later that day, I went to a yoga class. Showing up late to said yoga class late, the only spot left was smack dab in the middle of the room, next to the instructor. Just my luck! And sure enough, it only took one sun salutation and there I was, the crazy person, silently sobbing in childās pose for the rest of the class. Super embarrassing. So if you take Sepia, stay home!
- Herbs. Black and Blue Cohosh. I had these on hand and was going to do this at the last moment. These herbs are so bad tasting that I really did not want to have to drink them. Luckily I didnāt have to. These are the same herbs you can help to induce a full-term pregnancy. They are like a natural version of the inducement drug Pitocin. Also, a friend told me that these herbs can be found homeopathically, and they are called Caulphyllum and Cimicifuga. Incidentally, herbs can be a great friend for natural birth control as well as enhancing fertility when you are ready to try again.
Itās been over a week now since my ādeadlineā and I stopped bleeding on that very day!
I have had no more pain or blood, which I am very, very happy about. With the physical process complete, I can finally start to move on emotionally.
I do hope that this helps anyone going through a miscarriage and looking for information about how to avoid a D&C. There is not very much online about it, and it is good to know that you can heal and complete it on your own without having to go to the hospital.
(1) D&C After a Miscarriage
(2) What is Cupping?
Jessica
Have you found a way yet? Im in the same boat
Beatrice Musunga
Help me I inserted misoprostol n swollen one but no bleeding. Can I take black cohosh
sarah
my last period was on 2nd dec, i took urine and blood test and it came positive but i am not financially strong, and uninsured too. my age is 28. i have booked an appointment for ultrasound. i really have no option but to have miscarriage. please let me know safe and good options so that i don’t have to visit an ER or clinic. as nobody is accepting me as i am uninsured
Anderia Hines
Im bout 6 weeks how long did you have to take everything
Nikki
This is my first miscarriage and I have been struggling emotionally. I chose to let my body take its natural course and reading this will help me know what I can do to help the process along. Hopefully in a few months time we can try again for a baby.
Andrea
I just has a miscarriage I was ten weeks roughly it stayed four days ago I noticed only when I wiped from using the restroom there was punk on the paper well that lasted two days then on the third day I I felt like I had started my period it since me up but when I checked it was Brown tint in clear mucus like dried blood the next day I had sex and while in intercourse if was like my water broke it was about of clear fluid with an orange tint to it I started to feel high anxiety I didn’t feel much pain but u was taking strong pain meds for my bad hip I’d say 30 min after the fluid came during sex I felt like I needed to pee and every time I twisted or sat down or legs movements a gush of fluid came out then gushes of blood I finally made it to the toilet and I was soaked in blood in blood as soon as I sat down I felt a big blob come out like the size of a base ball then a stream of blood I assume I was afraid to look then another Blob and Stream of blood this repeated its self about eight times I could feel the blood clots getting smaller I pressed on my stomach and twisted and pushed getting to get everything out did this did about two hours I cleaned up and barely made it to the living room for comfortable seating cause I felt I was going to pass out I was cold but sweating everytime I stood up to walk I felt faint I drank some water then coffee then a donut I was able to find a Fruity smoothy drink which I felt had more nutrients and drank that took a pain pill with an ice night pad and passed out I have been sleeping now on and off for three days my bleeding is minimal ill have a gush of blood about once a day no more clotz or pain my grief had some what subsided I took three shots of tequila new years eve to feel better it kinda helped I got a large risen next to my vagina and a Lil rash but I think it’s from the pad abs laying down so much is right where my panty line is I haven’t been to the doctor I was going to make an appointment with my primary Monday since this all happened during Christmas abs new years holiday I was alone abs the people that did come around I kept it from im a naturally introverted so… Anyway does anyone disagree with not going to the doctor or do you have any tips on what I should do from here? I could use some advice thank you
Margie
I was wondering how much black cohosh did you use daily?
This is my 2nd miscarriage, the first one was very traumatizing.
I bought the supplement and followed what the bottle said, took 2 40mg tablets.
Clare
I think every woman has the right to choose. People are so flippant saying things like “just put the baby up for adoption”. Do you have any idea how hard that would be? Wise up. Catholic church(I am part of) sees contraception pretty much as abortion..morning after pill not frowned on..let people choose without judging.
Jennifer
I wish things could be turned around in people’s minds. Why don’t people “adopt” or take in the pregnant teenager. Take care of th mother and father so they can finish school like normal. Let them stay after the baby is born. The childless couple would be doing a huge and honorable service of keeping a family together. Please see these young people as children who still need parents love and help.
Briony
Thankyou so much for sharing your experience. I am 12 weeks and found out that my baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. 2 days ago I started bleeding and constant cramping today, but no sign of baby yet. Instinctively I want to go through this whole process on a physical and emotional level. Love your natural therapy ideas and will try to use some of these to get things moving along. I send you all much love and peace.