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How to heal and avoid a D&C after a natural miscarriage tragically and unexpectedly occurs so that a hospital visit is not necessary.

I recently experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage. Instead of opting for a hospital visit and invasive D&C, I chose to have a natural miscarriage and let nature take its course at home.
D&C stands for ādilation and curettageā. It is a surgical technique where a doctor forcibly dilates the cervix and clears the uterine lining using an instrument called a curette.
A D&C is not a pleasant experience, to put it mildly! Avoiding it using natural methods is a highly desirable alternative.
Natural Miscarriage Story
I was almost 12 weeks along when I miscarried, so it was almost like a mini-birth. I was lucky that I have experienced a live, home birth when my daughter was born over two years ago. That, combined with past experiences with miscarriage, helped me to not be afraid of the process.
I was very thankful to do everything at home (as opposed to a birth centerĀ or hospital). The physical environment was an important part of my overall healing.
Unfortunately for me, after the worst had passed, I continued to bleed and have intermittent contractions. After two full weeks from the time that I passed the baby and placenta, I went back to my OB to get an ultrasound to see if I had retained some piece of the placenta.
I was also fighting a cold virus and showing symptoms of an internal infection in my uterus. My blood was beginning to have a foul odor to it.
The doctor confirmed that I had indeed retained some tissue. Later that day, at my family practice doctorās office, I had a vaginal exam and my blood drawn to be tested. My iron levels were great, but my white blood count was low indicating an infection was beginning to take root.
My family practice doctor is very natural minded and I respect him very much, so when he suggested I take antibiotics, I listened.
I hate taking antibiotics and try to avoid them as much as I can, but I felt like the antibiotics were the lesser of two evils when weighing the risks of a D&C. (1)
Looking back, if I had been in a better mindset (thinking right and not consumed with grief) I probably would have thought to pull out the natural remedies sooner to avoid having to take antibiotics. But only hindsight is 20/20, and hopefully, this post will help someone else in the same situation.
He gave me three days to pass the rest of the tissue on my own or I would have to go to the hospital.
I left his office thinking I may have āfailedā at this pregnancy, but I am sure not going to āfailā at having a natural miscarriage. I pulled out my type A, over-ambitious personality and got to work figuring out all the natural remedies that help complete a miscarriage.
Over a three-day period, I did many different remedies to help me expel the last of the tissue. And sure enough, it worked. I completed the miscarriage on my own and did not need a D&C.
Hallelujah!
Remedies and Therapies to Avoid D&C
Here are the remedies I tried to avoid a hospital D&C. The good news is, they worked!
They are listed below in no particular order.
- Tea with Dong Quai in it. I drank Traditional Medicine Womenās Moon Cycle tea. I also drank some plain organicĀ raspberry leaf teaĀ (I like this one)Ā which is a hugely beneficial herb for uterine health.
- Cinnamon. I couldnāt really find exactly the dosage to take, so I just sprinkled freshĀ cinnamon on everything I could. Note that whether it isĀ cassia or Ceylon cinnamon really doesnāt matter. The Womenās Moon Cycle tea also has some in it. It tastes great in a glass of raw milkĀ or on a piece of bread slathered with butter. If you want to be bad, sprinkle on some sugar and you are in for a treat. Itās also great with cumin on a roast in a slow cooker such as a clay pot.
- Acupuncture. My acupuncture doctor did an hour-long treatment to help me expel everything. You can do pressure points at home if you prefer. They are mostly all in your ankles and shins. There is one on your hand as well, the fleshy part in between your first finger and thumb. Basically, all those points that you stay away from when you are pregnant.Ā Stimulating them is good for expelling everything from the uterus as well as acupuncture for labor. I recommend just massaging the area and whenever you find a tender spot, rub the heck out of it, even if it hurts a bit.
- Cupping. She also did a technique called cupping. Cupping is known to release congestion and help things that are stuck, physically or energetically, unstick. (2)
- Energy healing. I had a session with an energy healer and I realized that part of the reason I was holding on to that last bit of tissue was an emotional reason. I emotionally was not ready to fully let go of the pregnancy and my body was reacting to my emotions by holding on to the last bit of tissue.
- Affirmations. After the energy healing session, I told my body over and over again to let go and release. I also repeated over and over again, āI am healed. I am healthy.ā
- Homeopathy. Both Sabina and Sepia are helpful for naturally completing a miscarriage. I did Sepia because not only does it help expel the tissue, it helps expel the grief. My homeopathic doctor warned me that it would make me want to curl up in a ball and cry, a lot, and not to be alarmed. I sort of brushed him off and then later that day, I went to a yoga class. Showing up late to said yoga class late, the only spot left was smack dab in the middle of the room, next to the instructor. Just my luck! And sure enough, it only took one sun salutation and there I was, the crazy person, silently sobbing in childās pose for the rest of the class. Super embarrassing. So if you take Sepia, stay home!
- Herbs. Black and Blue Cohosh. I had these on hand and was going to do this at the last moment. These herbs are so bad tasting that I really did not want to have to drink them. Luckily I didnāt have to. These are the same herbs you can help to induce a full-term pregnancy. They are like a natural version of the inducement drug Pitocin. Also, a friend told me that these herbs can be found homeopathically, and they are called Caulphyllum and Cimicifuga. Incidentally, herbs can be a great friend for natural birth control as well as enhancing fertility when you are ready to try again.
Itās been over a week now since my ādeadlineā and I stopped bleeding on that very day!
I have had no more pain or blood, which I am very, very happy about. With the physical process complete, I can finally start to move on emotionally.
I do hope that this helps anyone going through a miscarriage and looking for information about how to avoid a D&C. There is not very much online about it, and it is good to know that you can heal and complete it on your own without having to go to the hospital.
(1) D&C After a Miscarriage
(2) What is Cupping?
I’m sorry for your loss, that must be really hard. Thank you for sharing these tips, hopefully I’ll never have to put them to use, but it is good to know they’re here.
Natural miscarriage does not always work.
I tried to have a natural miscarriage but after 2 weeks of times of excruitating pain, I went in to my doctor. I ended up having a ectopic pregnancy that had ruptured. The OB/GYN thought it had been ruptured for those 2 weeks. It was so hard….it hurt down to my soul. I totally believe in natural healing and eating but sometimes we need to listen to our bodies when it is telling us something is not right.
Amen!
Thank you do much for posting this! I just wish I had this information a month ago when I had my second loss. After extremely heavy bleeding for 4 days, I was forced to have a D&C in order to stop my hemorrhaging. I really wish I could have tried these tips before I had to have the surgery!
So sorry for your loss Natalie, glad you know about this information now too. Maybe you can help a friend in the future.
Totally. This is information all women should have access too, so that if a friend or daughter goes through it they know what to do and how to help.
I like that you included energy healing. It took my body 5 weeks to let go of my last lost little and I just KNOW it’s because my heart couldn’t let go.
Great article. Thanks for sharing. š
Thanks for sharing your story, so sorry for your loss. Glad you liked the part about energy healing. I think energy healing gets left out on a lot of holistic/wellness blogs because it is still pretty taboo and weird. Acupuncture is technically energy healing, but it so much more socially aceptable. I am huge fan of energy healing and I am a certified Reiki Master myself, I wish more people utilized it.
great post. I’ve never lost a child or had a miscarriage… but it is good info for any woman or mother. or doctor. or anyone. This reminds me of my dear friend who just had her 27 day old pass away. not a miscarriage, but just reminded me. My heart aches for her.
Hmmmm….acupressure between thumb and forefinger. I did that to relieve nasal congestion. I later had very powerful contractions at only 26 weeks pregnant. Now I know to avoid doing that.
I had a miscarriage late summer of last year at 5 weeks. I had started spotting a little, and I was scared that I was having (another) one. One thing that came to my mind as I worried was “If you’re going to have a miscarriage, make it the healthiest miscarriage possible”. I thought it was strange at first, but then it started to make sense. If I want to have healthy pregnancies, why wouldn’t I want to have a healthy miscarriage as well? After I was diagnosed with a miscarriage started taking a female comfort formula with black and blue cohosh, red raspberry, and other female herbs. Within an hour of taking them I started to bleed. It lasted for about 4 days. I ate good foods, and rested a lot, and within a few months I was able to conceive again. I really think that if I hadn’t done those things I would have had a lot of problems. The hardest part always is letting go of the pregnancy. I didn’t take the pills until the day after the miscarriage was confirmed simply because I wasn’t ready to say goodbye to it till then.
Thank you so much for writing about this. If someone has never been through it before they don’t realize how painful it is, physically and emotionally. You inspire me to write about my own experience some day soon. š
Thanks for sharing. I am so glad you were able to take good care of yourself and having a healing time for yourself. I agree, letting go is so hard. I am glad you will write about your experience soon, I know it will help other women. When you do be sure to comment on my original miscarriage story posted on my blog, so other women can see it.
I wish I knew this for my 3rd miscarriage and avoided an unnecessary d&c. My 1st miscarriage passed naturally and no more difficult than a heavy period. My 2nd miscarriage, I bled so much so fast and without ceasing that I was bleeding to death within hours. A D&C was necessary to save my life. My 3rd miscarriage, I panicked, ran to the OB asap, he panicked and performed a D&C, which he later said went well because there was little left in me. In other words, the D&C was unnecessary.
Yes, some D&C’s are very necessary. So sorry for your losses.