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How to heal and avoid a D&C after a natural miscarriage tragically and unexpectedly occurs so that a hospital visit is not necessary.

I recently experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage. Instead of opting for a hospital visit and invasive D&C, I chose to have a natural miscarriage and let nature take its course at home.
D&C stands for ādilation and curettageā. It is a surgical technique where a doctor forcibly dilates the cervix and clears the uterine lining using an instrument called a curette.
A D&C is not a pleasant experience, to put it mildly! Avoiding it using natural methods is a highly desirable alternative.
Natural Miscarriage Story
I was almost 12 weeks along when I miscarried, so it was almost like a mini-birth. I was lucky that I have experienced a live, home birth when my daughter was born over two years ago. That, combined with past experiences with miscarriage, helped me to not be afraid of the process.
I was very thankful to do everything at home (as opposed to a birth centerĀ or hospital). The physical environment was an important part of my overall healing.
Unfortunately for me, after the worst had passed, I continued to bleed and have intermittent contractions. After two full weeks from the time that I passed the baby and placenta, I went back to my OB to get an ultrasound to see if I had retained some piece of the placenta.
I was also fighting a cold virus and showing symptoms of an internal infection in my uterus. My blood was beginning to have a foul odor to it.
The doctor confirmed that I had indeed retained some tissue. Later that day, at my family practice doctorās office, I had a vaginal exam and my blood drawn to be tested. My iron levels were great, but my white blood count was low indicating an infection was beginning to take root.
My family practice doctor is very natural minded and I respect him very much, so when he suggested I take antibiotics, I listened.
I hate taking antibiotics and try to avoid them as much as I can, but I felt like the antibiotics were the lesser of two evils when weighing the risks of a D&C. (1)
Looking back, if I had been in a better mindset (thinking right and not consumed with grief) I probably would have thought to pull out the natural remedies sooner to avoid having to take antibiotics. But only hindsight is 20/20, and hopefully, this post will help someone else in the same situation.
He gave me three days to pass the rest of the tissue on my own or I would have to go to the hospital.
I left his office thinking I may have āfailedā at this pregnancy, but I am sure not going to āfailā at having a natural miscarriage. I pulled out my type A, over-ambitious personality and got to work figuring out all the natural remedies that help complete a miscarriage.
Over a three-day period, I did many different remedies to help me expel the last of the tissue. And sure enough, it worked. I completed the miscarriage on my own and did not need a D&C.
Hallelujah!
Remedies and Therapies to Avoid D&C
Here are the remedies I tried to avoid a hospital D&C. The good news is, they worked!
They are listed below in no particular order.
- Tea with Dong Quai in it. I drank Traditional Medicine Womenās Moon Cycle tea. I also drank some plain organicĀ raspberry leaf teaĀ (I like this one)Ā which is a hugely beneficial herb for uterine health.
- Cinnamon. I couldnāt really find exactly the dosage to take, so I just sprinkled freshĀ cinnamon on everything I could. Note that whether it isĀ cassia or Ceylon cinnamon really doesnāt matter. The Womenās Moon Cycle tea also has some in it. It tastes great in a glass of raw milkĀ or on a piece of bread slathered with butter. If you want to be bad, sprinkle on some sugar and you are in for a treat. Itās also great with cumin on a roast in a slow cooker such as a clay pot.
- Acupuncture. My acupuncture doctor did an hour-long treatment to help me expel everything. You can do pressure points at home if you prefer. They are mostly all in your ankles and shins. There is one on your hand as well, the fleshy part in between your first finger and thumb. Basically, all those points that you stay away from when you are pregnant.Ā Stimulating them is good for expelling everything from the uterus as well as acupuncture for labor. I recommend just massaging the area and whenever you find a tender spot, rub the heck out of it, even if it hurts a bit.
- Cupping. She also did a technique called cupping. Cupping is known to release congestion and help things that are stuck, physically or energetically, unstick. (2)
- Energy healing. I had a session with an energy healer and I realized that part of the reason I was holding on to that last bit of tissue was an emotional reason. I emotionally was not ready to fully let go of the pregnancy and my body was reacting to my emotions by holding on to the last bit of tissue.
- Affirmations. After the energy healing session, I told my body over and over again to let go and release. I also repeated over and over again, āI am healed. I am healthy.ā
- Homeopathy. Both Sabina and Sepia are helpful for naturally completing a miscarriage. I did Sepia because not only does it help expel the tissue, it helps expel the grief. My homeopathic doctor warned me that it would make me want to curl up in a ball and cry, a lot, and not to be alarmed. I sort of brushed him off and then later that day, I went to a yoga class. Showing up late to said yoga class late, the only spot left was smack dab in the middle of the room, next to the instructor. Just my luck! And sure enough, it only took one sun salutation and there I was, the crazy person, silently sobbing in childās pose for the rest of the class. Super embarrassing. So if you take Sepia, stay home!
- Herbs. Black and Blue Cohosh. I had these on hand and was going to do this at the last moment. These herbs are so bad tasting that I really did not want to have to drink them. Luckily I didnāt have to. These are the same herbs you can help to induce a full-term pregnancy. They are like a natural version of the inducement drug Pitocin. Also, a friend told me that these herbs can be found homeopathically, and they are called Caulphyllum and Cimicifuga. Incidentally, herbs can be a great friend for natural birth control as well as enhancing fertility when you are ready to try again.
Itās been over a week now since my ādeadlineā and I stopped bleeding on that very day!
I have had no more pain or blood, which I am very, very happy about. With the physical process complete, I can finally start to move on emotionally.
I do hope that this helps anyone going through a miscarriage and looking for information about how to avoid a D&C. There is not very much online about it, and it is good to know that you can heal and complete it on your own without having to go to the hospital.
(1) D&C After a Miscarriage
(2) What is Cupping?
Good day. I started to bleed lastnight. I know I’m losing my baby because it’s my 3rd. I’m mad at my husband for leaving me alone to go through hell again. Is it normal?
Umm.. I hope you know it can be called a ” natural miscarriage” really all it is is a hippie technique of abortion. I can understand if it was a product of rape, but if you have one because your not ready, apparently God thinks you are.
Sorry misunderstood ignore that comment. Still true though
First off I’m an atheist and second I’m a 19 year old living with her parents, student and cashier, my fiancĆ©e is an amputee and works 2 jobs and we have very little in the way of funds, I have cervical cancer and keep in mind there are far worse situations that people are in, and you think that “God” should be a reason for them to put themselves through emotional financial physical and mental hell? They have their reasons
im 10 weeks. just found out today that there is no heartbeat, the baby is only 8 weeks developed aroundabout… im hoping that this is easier then a d&s….
I’m 5 months pregnant and I need this baby out I’m a single mother of two.. Findout late that I was pregnant but the only thing to do at the time was D&S… I don’t want to do it, I have been on the internet day and night to get infor of how to get rid of it naturally I so glad I found this and I HOPE IT WORKS FOR ME.
hey Kemisha did it work?
Malcolm,
You’re an idiot with a reading comprehension problem. This is about avoiding having a D&C when you’ve had a miscarriage, NOT how to cause a miscarriage as a few other idiots before you have thought as well.
all u fuckers are baby killers i hope u know that
Malcolm,
Youāre an idiot with a reading comprehension problem. This is about avoiding having a D&C when youāve had a miscarriage, NOT how to cause a miscarriage as a few other idiots before you have thought as well.
Hello. i am sorry for your loss. I have a few questions if someone could please hel me. So my story is……I have 5 beautiful babies at home and love them to death. I am in the process of having an at home miscarriage. It started 3 days ago when I had bad sharp taring pain on my left side. The doctor told me I had a strained muscle or pulled one. but did a pee test and then sent me for a emgr ultrasound and blood work. At this point i had no idea I was prego. I was told by the ultraound tech that everything looked fine and that i could pick up my results tomorrow at the doc office. I went to the doctors office the folling day and picked up my test results. Still in pain and now bleeding lightly (thought it was my peroid early) i read the test. Not fully understanding i took the results to the doc right away. The test came back 6 weeks 3 days sac, no yolk, no heartbeat, tisuse mass seen within sac not form fetal pole. so I knew right away. it was a shocker. It truns out i was 10 weeks along but the baby did not develope and had passed/died at 6 weeks. It showed I had a hemerage between the plasenta and utrin wall. so after i found out i was upset on not knowing but not sure how to feel in all this. like i just find out and this is how i found out. so yesturday started the heavy bleeding and passing blood clots. woke up at 3am to find my bed covered in blood and bad cramping. i ended up passing somthing a bit bigger then a tennis ball. i have pased many clots and am in alot of pain. so my question is when does this end? what else should i expect? Y dont i have any feeling? and what should i do? pleae help me. thanks
s for this info. im about 3 mnths preg i tried the vit c just made me ill i tried blue cohosh didnt have affect. now im 4 mnths and desperate to try sommat else. i have 2 boys butreally cant afford another and a condom broke. i really dont want to do this. its depressing me that things might not work on me
i had a miscaradge about 3 years ago, and havent been able to get pregnant since, ive been trying to add a new additon to the family, i havent had any chance on having a baby of my own yet, when i went to the doctors and found out i had a miscaradge they told me i already let everything out, and i didnt need a miscaradge, i havent had any luck getting pregnant, should i get a dnc or what are your ideas on helping me get pregnant.
Having a miscarriage is a really sad part of every woman’s life especially if you are expecting and so excited with that baby inside you..But Whatever happens it is always God’s Will if he will give more time for us parents to be with our children. I’m so sorry for all the Parents who lost their angels..just be happy they are all with our Divine Lord..