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How to heal and avoid a D&C after a natural miscarriage tragically and unexpectedly occurs so that a hospital visit is not necessary.

I recently experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage. Instead of opting for a hospital visit and invasive D&C, I chose to have a natural miscarriage and let nature take its course at home.
D&C stands for ādilation and curettageā. It is a surgical technique where a doctor forcibly dilates the cervix and clears the uterine lining using an instrument called a curette.
A D&C is not a pleasant experience, to put it mildly! Avoiding it using natural methods is a highly desirable alternative.
Natural Miscarriage Story
I was almost 12 weeks along when I miscarried, so it was almost like a mini-birth. I was lucky that I have experienced a live, home birth when my daughter was born over two years ago. That, combined with past experiences with miscarriage, helped me to not be afraid of the process.
I was very thankful to do everything at home (as opposed to a birth centerĀ or hospital). The physical environment was an important part of my overall healing.
Unfortunately for me, after the worst had passed, I continued to bleed and have intermittent contractions. After two full weeks from the time that I passed the baby and placenta, I went back to my OB to get an ultrasound to see if I had retained some piece of the placenta.
I was also fighting a cold virus and showing symptoms of an internal infection in my uterus. My blood was beginning to have a foul odor to it.
The doctor confirmed that I had indeed retained some tissue. Later that day, at my family practice doctorās office, I had a vaginal exam and my blood drawn to be tested. My iron levels were great, but my white blood count was low indicating an infection was beginning to take root.
My family practice doctor is very natural minded and I respect him very much, so when he suggested I take antibiotics, I listened.
I hate taking antibiotics and try to avoid them as much as I can, but I felt like the antibiotics were the lesser of two evils when weighing the risks of a D&C. (1)
Looking back, if I had been in a better mindset (thinking right and not consumed with grief) I probably would have thought to pull out the natural remedies sooner to avoid having to take antibiotics. But only hindsight is 20/20, and hopefully, this post will help someone else in the same situation.
He gave me three days to pass the rest of the tissue on my own or I would have to go to the hospital.
I left his office thinking I may have āfailedā at this pregnancy, but I am sure not going to āfailā at having a natural miscarriage. I pulled out my type A, over-ambitious personality and got to work figuring out all the natural remedies that help complete a miscarriage.
Over a three-day period, I did many different remedies to help me expel the last of the tissue. And sure enough, it worked. I completed the miscarriage on my own and did not need a D&C.
Hallelujah!
Remedies and Therapies to Avoid D&C
Here are the remedies I tried to avoid a hospital D&C. The good news is, they worked!
They are listed below in no particular order.
- Tea with Dong Quai in it. I drank Traditional Medicine Womenās Moon Cycle tea. I also drank some plain organicĀ raspberry leaf teaĀ (I like this one)Ā which is a hugely beneficial herb for uterine health.
- Cinnamon. I couldnāt really find exactly the dosage to take, so I just sprinkled freshĀ cinnamon on everything I could. Note that whether it isĀ cassia or Ceylon cinnamon really doesnāt matter. The Womenās Moon Cycle tea also has some in it. It tastes great in a glass of raw milkĀ or on a piece of bread slathered with butter. If you want to be bad, sprinkle on some sugar and you are in for a treat. Itās also great with cumin on a roast in a slow cooker such as a clay pot.
- Acupuncture. My acupuncture doctor did an hour-long treatment to help me expel everything. You can do pressure points at home if you prefer. They are mostly all in your ankles and shins. There is one on your hand as well, the fleshy part in between your first finger and thumb. Basically, all those points that you stay away from when you are pregnant.Ā Stimulating them is good for expelling everything from the uterus as well as acupuncture for labor. I recommend just massaging the area and whenever you find a tender spot, rub the heck out of it, even if it hurts a bit.
- Cupping. She also did a technique called cupping. Cupping is known to release congestion and help things that are stuck, physically or energetically, unstick. (2)
- Energy healing. I had a session with an energy healer and I realized that part of the reason I was holding on to that last bit of tissue was an emotional reason. I emotionally was not ready to fully let go of the pregnancy and my body was reacting to my emotions by holding on to the last bit of tissue.
- Affirmations. After the energy healing session, I told my body over and over again to let go and release. I also repeated over and over again, āI am healed. I am healthy.ā
- Homeopathy. Both Sabina and Sepia are helpful for naturally completing a miscarriage. I did Sepia because not only does it help expel the tissue, it helps expel the grief. My homeopathic doctor warned me that it would make me want to curl up in a ball and cry, a lot, and not to be alarmed. I sort of brushed him off and then later that day, I went to a yoga class. Showing up late to said yoga class late, the only spot left was smack dab in the middle of the room, next to the instructor. Just my luck! And sure enough, it only took one sun salutation and there I was, the crazy person, silently sobbing in childās pose for the rest of the class. Super embarrassing. So if you take Sepia, stay home!
- Herbs. Black and Blue Cohosh. I had these on hand and was going to do this at the last moment. These herbs are so bad tasting that I really did not want to have to drink them. Luckily I didnāt have to. These are the same herbs you can help to induce a full-term pregnancy. They are like a natural version of the inducement drug Pitocin. Also, a friend told me that these herbs can be found homeopathically, and they are called Caulphyllum and Cimicifuga. Incidentally, herbs can be a great friend for natural birth control as well as enhancing fertility when you are ready to try again.
Itās been over a week now since my ādeadlineā and I stopped bleeding on that very day!
I have had no more pain or blood, which I am very, very happy about. With the physical process complete, I can finally start to move on emotionally.
I do hope that this helps anyone going through a miscarriage and looking for information about how to avoid a D&C. There is not very much online about it, and it is good to know that you can heal and complete it on your own without having to go to the hospital.
(1) D&C After a Miscarriage
(2) What is Cupping?
I was told last week 9 weeks my babys heart beat had stoped, It look me a whole week to misscarry naturally, it has been so heartbreaking having to deal with it all let alone the awful pain I’ve had, it had been such a horrible experience for me physically an emotionally š but to all u girls that are writing that you want to try to misscarry a healthy pregnancy are sick in the head, there’s hundreds of women like myself that would have given anythink just to have a healthy and safe pregnancy and then there’s silly girls like you that want to basically kill a healthy life u should be absolutely ashamed to even get the chance of becoming parents or better still get you fella to put something on the end of it, made me feel sick reading some of them comments when theres women like my self grieving of the loss we have had to go trew when we wanted it so bad n then these silly girls that want to know ways to misscarry a healthy pregnancy that’s got me so angry!!
You don’t know what their situations are. Mind your own business and don’t judge them.
Hi im on the same situation..im 5 weeks then i was told the heart beat had stopped . What do i do naturally?
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I’m trying to miscarry but don’t want to go to the doctor I want it to be a secret type thing, I know this sounds bad but I need help please
Thank you for posting this – I wish I had found this slightly earlier.
I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage in 8 weeks, but the baby probably died in 6; and I wanted to expel naturally, no D&C. So, I did – no hospital, no painkillers, me screaming in pain and with hemorrhage – but it was ok, after 24 hours, or so it seemed. 2 weeks after that at a check-up they said some tissues is left. They put me on Mesoprostol to expel it, because I refused D&C but I have the feeling that I didn’t pass everything, plus a bad smell started to form. The doctor put me on strong antibiotics – more like a prevention. I also saw a homeopath who gave me Sabina – searching for this I found this post. My family is worried I’m doing something bad to my body by taking homeopathic remedies. I hope not. I’ll follow your advice even if it’s a little late…
so, Thank you
Thank you for posting this! I have been searching the web for days, looking for quality information on natural miscarriage. I’m only about 5 weeks, and I’ve been hoping to find something soon out of concern that the process would be more difficult on the body if I attempted a natural miscarriage too late.
I was stunned that it was so hard to find this information and almost gave up looking! I’m so glad I searched again.
I just wanted to say that there are 2 sides to posting about natural miscarriages there’s a + and a – first its great that this information is out there for the good hearted people who need this and 2nd this information in the wrong cold blooded hands could help someone to naturally abort there unborn and call it a miscarriage…
I am having a miscarriage at home as I type this. I was 10 weeks, 4 days but my baby died a few weeks earlier. The pain has been so intense, with no reward at the end like a normal delivery. I have searched the net for stories from otherwomen but it’s as if there is a stigma attached to miscarriage. Also, nobody tells you that you will be passing some nearly unidentifiable pieces of who knows what. From the pain to the things that expel to the noises it is a traumatic experience. And the grief and guilt are just beginning to set in although I know I did everything I could to be healthy.
hello im Mayra pregnant im 11 weeks but I need the exact steps of what exactly did u take
I had a miscarriage two days ago. After hoping and crossing fingers for a month, I felt it the day before. It was four weeks. We were out with my boyfriends entire family after his brothers graduation. It happened in the bathroom at a restaurant. Its helpful to know what other women are dealing with and that its okay to let it happen naturally. How do I know when its all over?
This actually worked for.me the same day.