By Guest Blogger Paula Jager, CSCS
The jury is in. From my 10 week experiment to see whether the 11 pounds of fat I had gained over the winter was the result of aging and being post menopausal or lifestyle I have to say that while many factors will influence it- lifestyle rules.
Editor’s Note: To read about Paula’s entire post menopausal weight loss journey, click here and here for her first and second posts on her adventure!
I exceeded my goal of 115 lbs and 12% body fat. Final weigh in was 113.5 lbs and 12.1% body fat. Let me say that while this is a bit of an extreme it was something I chose to do because I competed in fitness for a number of years and wanted to see if I could achieve a similar look at 51 years of age. I only wish I knew in my competitive years what I now know about nutrition and exercise. This was achievable with very little sacrifice. But isn’t that usually the irony of youth?
In my particular case I was simply eating too much. Did I keep track of calories? Yes, I needed to see where I was in order to know what to change–what to adjust. Will I spend the rest of my summer calculating macronutrient ratios on Fit Day? No, but I have an excellent idea now of what a reasonable portion is. Enough food to sustain activity and fulfill satiety but not to the point of gluttony; there’s a fine line there. And if I find myself overindulging and packing the pounds back on I will revisit that process for a week or so to rein my self in otherwise we will get out of control again. It’s an educational tool to be used appropriately.
Did I exercise? Of course I did; I would be in soft and sorry shape if I didn’t lift heavy things and move on a regular basis not to mention unhealthy and moody. But I do so in a hormonally intelligent manner. If anyone thinks they can eat as much as they want–even of the right foods and not exercise without ill effects they are delusional. Traditional man ate reasonable portions of the right foods or maybe a little more when it was available and less when it was scarce. One thing he didn’t do was sit all the time. He moved a lot–everyday; he would lift heavy objects, chase wild game, at times run for his life and not at the pace seen by many plodding on a treadmill in an air conditioned gym. His efforts were short and intense not mild and excessive.
Did my body react differently than it did at 25 or 35? Yes it did; I was somewhat unhealthy at that age but the only thing I had to do to get lean was stop eating candy at night for a couple of weeks. Well, not quite that easy now but common sense would expect that. It requires a little more effort at this age, a little more discipline, you can’t get away with as much anymore–life takes a cumulative toll on the body and the skin is not as forgiving or quite as smooth and taut. I’m not one to dabble in cosmetic surgery or toxic botox for the purpose of trying to preserve youth. Not for me; it is what it is and I accept the fact that I will never, ever look 25 again. I will however look, feel and be the healthiest and best I can be at whatever age I am. I am thankful that life has been as gracious and forgiving as it has to me.
Calories and activity are only a part of the equation along with genetics, age, gender and metabolic individuality. Certain people are faced with medical challenges that others are not and these things will make this process different for what each individual is able to achieve but in general and for most people. . .
The verdict stands: if you want to look and feel your best and be your healthiest at any age–eat right and move your arse.
So what now? Maintenance. I will settle in at what I consider my set point weight / body fat–around 115 and 15%. I will eat reasonable portions of the right foods, continue to exercise, get enough quality sleep, expose myself to sunlight on a regular basis, spend time with nature, family and friends and indulge in reasonable ways.
And now it’s time for a well deserved indulgence with my hubby on our anniversary. Our favorite: about a 6 oz portion of a grass fed bone in ribeye, 4 oz white potato w/ 2 tsp raw butter, fresh green salad with homemade dressing and I think the ice cream maker just stopped. A sensible portion of vanilla made with raw cream, farm fresh yolks and maple syrup. Every night? No, maybe once a week. IMO, maintenance is living with the 80/20 rule. Part of life is letting go and enjoying food centered times with family, friends and lovers. It has to be sustainable in order to work and work well long term. Life is good.
Paula Jager CSCS and Level 1 CrossFit and CF Nutrition Certified is the owner of CrossFit Jaguar.
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Kari-and Those Dowdy-Boys via Facebook
Love Paula! She is a wonderful person & u guys should check out the results at her gym(go to her website) on the bathing suit challenge! Everyone of all ages & weight just working out & eating right!!!
Paula Jager
Those aren’t ribs, they are serratus anterior muscles:)
Nickole
D., I just read that French book and it was very enlightening to me! I loved it! She had some very interesting points. Great recipes too!
Nickole @ http://www.savvyteasandherbs.com
Paula Jager
Thanks ladies but believe there was definitely junk in the trunk. You should have seen the before bathing suit photos. Being a family blog Sarah used the more “conservative” photos:)
Stefanie
I’m with Angela – she looked amazing in the “before” pics! Actually, I think she looked better!
Angela
Is it just me or does it appear that there was no junk in her trunk to begin with?! At 33, I wish I could look as good as she does in her “before” picture! Sheesh.
deb
I too have gained belly and back fat in spite of eating good healthy fats, meats, fruits, veg etc. I exercise daily, with some runs, bike rides, walks, yoga, heavy weight lifting. I have NOT been successful in slimming my waist back down and it is about 2″ too big. weirdly my bust and hips remain the same as most of my life, although the boobage is heading south no matter how many pushups and chest presses I do; 🙁 There must be a genetic part to how our skin sags or does not and where our fat hangs out and I am sure there are hormonal issues afoot as I am 52 and in meno for about 3 years.
I am going to try cutting fat, upping good fruits/veg carbs and eating a bit less meat, see what happens!
Good Job Paula!
deb
D.
I’m kinda with Cindy on this one. I weighed 110-115 all my life until age 47 when I started that decline into lowered metabolism rates and perimenopause. Now that I’m 58 and into full menopause and have virtually no metabolism left (ha!) I’m up to 145 and it just doesn’t come off for me. But I’m ok with that. My lifestyle is taking care of other people’s children, since my three are grown and gone from home now. There is very little time for “me” in my days, and on weekends I have grandkids, gardening and house cleaning, yada yada. If I can get 1/2 hour to soak in the whirlpool, I consider myself pampered.
On a “personal opinion only” note though, I truly don’t want my upper body (across the shoulders and upper arms) to look like Paula’s. No thank you. I have my own personal reasons for that – I just never thought it was feminine to have muscles like a man – sorry! I mean, all your hard work to get that way is fine is that’s the way YOU want to look. But it’s just not me.
I’m in the process of reading a book about how the french eat (quite interesting and, of course, not a new concept) but I’ve just never had time to understand why everyone was talking about the french way of eating. So I read a page here and another page there and try to work my way through the book. If I can make a couple of small changes which help me lose, fine. If not, that’s ok, too. I eat right, so maybe this is where my body is supposed to be for my age. I like who I am, so maybe that has merit, too.
Andrea Barr via Facebook
Paula’s posts are great, but a little disheartening for me. I am trying to get over my adrenal fatigue and, from what I’ve read, overexercising is very bad for weak adrenals. I wish someone would post on losing weight with hormone issues.
Paula Jager
Overexercising is bad for weak adrenals and so is underexercising. I had a lot of hormonal issues and weakened adrenals in my early 40’s when I followed a low fat vegetarian diet. After a major nutritional 180 of adding in lots of meat/fish/fowl, animal fats and removing grains, legumes, sugar and pastuerized dairy along with lowering my exercise intensity it took me about 1 year and a half to heal. I was then able to increase the intensity/frequency of my exercise. My best personal advice is to be consistent, disciplined and patient with the healing process, it is not overnight.
Paula Jager
and an excellent idea for future posts. . .