The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
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I’m so sorry. I was just skimming the post looking for a rice milk recipe, I didn’t read the rest. But I’m scared someone could be seriously harmed by bad rice milk (or bad almond milk): I think it is NOT SAFE to just leave it on the counter!!! (Some people say you shouldn’t even keep cooked rice, even in the fridge, for a few days because rice can be a very high risk for food poisoning even in a very short amount of time.)
Please, please, please take care and keep safe. I’m sorry I don’t know more and am not explaining or reading better. I just don’t want to harm people. Please keep safe.
Sarah
It’s left on the counter because it is fermenting .. I would recommend that you read up further on how beneficial bacteria prevent spoilage.
Angie
Hello! I started adding the almond milk version for my 11 month old in addition to breast milk. He’s really gassy. Any ideas? Maybe I should try one of the other alternatives. Just not sure which one…any thoughts?
Sarah TheHealthyHomeEconomist
As stated in the article, these recipes are ONLY for children over 1 year old. If your child is gassy, it’s likely because he is too young and his digestion too immature to handle it. A lot can change for a child in only a month or two.
Angie
Thanks Sarah. Yes. Agreed that a lot can change in only a few weeks. I gave him probably 3-4 ounces total..spread throughout the day so not much but it was evident he was ‘off’… I pulled back today and he’s better. I’ll chill for a month or two and try again..;)
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My baby got cow’s milk allergy. I was very worried. However i found that some substitutes can be given. I gave him substitutes and he is drinking them without any problem.
Rachel Sturges
A note to other mothers. Be careful about the coconut milk tonic for young children. The fluoride content in the Dolomite Powder is well above the daily recommended limit – even if only 1/3 of this tonic is consumed in a given day.
Jason Venckus
In addition Dolomite can contain arsenic, aluminum, lead and mercury. Skip the dolomite and feed kids foods high calcium and magnesium such as leafy greens, beans and cruciferous veggies. Not cheetos, doritos and lucky charms.
Gina
Do you know the nutritional details of the homemade coconut milk from scratch so I can cover all my nutrients for my 1 year old?
mel
here’s a question I thought the almond milk option sounded fantastic though it means I won’t get my usual almond flour out of making it so I gave it a go. I took 2 cups of almonds (skins on because I cannot find the skinless) soaked and then ground them which turned out to be a lot of work with my little blender and came out to ALOT of almond paste, then I added the other ingredients and left it on the counter. The next morning I heard hissing and found it was the almond milk jar I opened the lid to releave the pressure and prevent the impending explosion 😛 losing a bunch of it in the process when it came flying out of there like a black smoke snake in science class. When I came home this evening ditto, it happened again, this time I have separated it into 2 two quart jars, now is this supposed to happen??? … should I drink it??? (I might mention I found this post only after already soaking 1 cup almonds for 12 hours in filtered water then another 12 hours in water plus 1/4 tsp sea salt so I just threw that in the fridge and repeated to get the 2 cups could this be my problem?)
Debbie Eisa via Facebook
The Healthy Home Economist, do you use the powder coconut that you have in the “sources”? I was confused because it said coconut milk, but when you click sources, it’s a powder. Thank you.
Dane
What one is the highest in calcium? I didn’t know coconut, rice and almonds had calcium in them. Our 3 yr old can’t have dairy either.
Becky Kilgore Sopeland via Facebook
A very long time ago..(in the 1950s) I was weaned from breast milk, only to have my mom realize I was allergic to cow’s milk..living very far from a city, I was given beef broth as a substitute. I have been blessed by exceedingly wonderful health….that’s my story, & I’m sticking with it!