The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
Katie Davis
How much of the coconut milk tonic should a 1 year old drink in a day? (How many oz and how many servings of said amount?)
Sarah
It depends on many factors such as how much solid food is the child eating and is he/she of normal growth/weight? These are questions for your doctor.
Amber
HI Sarah, Would you recommend the Coconut Tonic recipe for a 13 month old? If so, would you say thats the best option? Were an non-milk family but I also don’t feel Almond milk has enough calcium and protein.
Sarah
My children all drink raw grassfed milk which is the best option, but if there is a dairy allergy, then the coconut milk tonic would be the next best choice.
natalie peterkin
are blanched almonds ok? Its the only ones i can find organic
Sarah
Yes, those are fine.
natalie peterkin
SO no almond milk I can buy in the store is suitable for 1 year old?
Sarah
I have not found ANY brand of almond milk at the store that is acceptable.
Christina
My 20 months old son is allergic to dairy and tree nuts. What type of non-dairy milk he can drink if soy milk isn’t an option?
Sarah
How about the coconut milk tonic recipe above … coconuts are NOT tree nuts.
Anne
Also, do you recommend any non dairy yogurt alternatives for babies >1year that are low on sugar? (THANK YOU)
Sarah
I would recommend coconut yogurt. Be careful, the brands I’ve seen at the store have a lot of additives, so you might wish to buy a yogurt culture and make it yourself.
Anne
So you leave the almond milk on the counter for two days – and then how long does it last in the fridge? Thank you!
Sarah
It lasts about a week.
Lindsey
There is a high amount of fat but no protein in the coconut tonic. Do I need to supplement my 1 year old toddler’s diet with more protein to make up for the lack of it?
Sarah
Feel free to add collagen hydrolysate powder to the coconut milk tonic if you like. This adds healthy protein (don’t use protein powder!). I do this myself all the time.
Vetted brands here tested to be free of glyphosate: https://www.radiantlifecatalog.com/category/s?keyword=gelatin&a=58537
Andrijana
Is there any alternative to honey. I would prepare rice milk to a baby just turned 12 months and am little nervous about honey yet..
Sarah
Yes, dark (grade B) maple syrup is fine. Yacon syrup is also a good substitute. https://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/yacon-healthy-syrup-or-modern-hype/
Abby
Who the heck has time for this when you have a toddler anyway. Just being realistic. I know I don’t!