The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
Tamra Griffin
What are the dangers of store bought almond milk?
Sarah
This article outlines the issues. Also a problem are the toxic containers .. they are lined with plastic and the almond milk is boiling hot when poured in which triggers leaching of estrogenic substances into the almond milk. Refrigerated almond milk with no additives or synthetic vitamins is fine. https://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/coconut-and-almond-milk-in-cartons-not-a-healthy-buy/
Sharon
Hello Sarah, I love the alternative options you have provided in place of milk dairy, thank you for sharing. My question is with the Coconut Tonic. A child of 1-2yrs is recommended to take 14oz of diary milk a day. Of the Coconut Tonic how much should a child take to meet the same nutritional levels found to equal the recommended diary intake?
elise
Would rice dream organic be a good option ?
Sarah
No because it is packaged in an aseptic carton. This type of packaging is highly toxic. Also, last time I checked, this brand had synthetic vitamins added. Not a good idea.
Jessie
Our daughter is 13 months old and her Dr. recommended that we’d stop with the formula and switch to regular whole milk. Although she is not allergic to milk, I would prefer to find a healthier, more nutritious substitution. Out of the three home made milk recipes (coconut, rice , almond), can you recommend the best one in your opinion and why? Also, is it possible to get nutrition facts for each option?
Samantha
Hi! I’m excited to try the Coconut Tonic recipe for my 1 1/2 baby girl who’s allergic to milk, soy, almonds and rice, amongst many other foods. Do you know if it will retain its nutritional value, if I freeze extra batches? Also, could you provide the various vitamins/minerals in this concoction, please? I need to make sure I’m getting her enough nutrients in the new restricted diet. Thank you!
Rebecca
What do you think of hemp milk?
Sarah
Not crazy about hemp milk .. but there’s probably a way to make it at home that would be healthy. I would avoid the hemp milks at the store in cartons as the packaging is TOXIC (boiling hot liquid poured into plastic lined aseptic containers … chemicals in the hemp milk!). Also, there the problem of synthetic vitamins and additives. If you wish to drink hemp milk, best to make it yourself. I think you will find these other three options in the article above to be much easier to make.
Kristine
I make homemade yogurt from low pasteurized grass fed cream top milk and give my children grass fed cheese. I have been making walnut and pecan milk for my 18 month old since I do not have access to raw and have noticed an improvement in speech and behavior since removing the low pasteurized milk. However, she has been craving carbs now. Would you think maybe 8 ounces of the coconut tonic would be a good place to start? Thanks!
Sarah
Coconut milk tonic is the best milk substitute. Yes, I would give it a try!
Philip waterworth
Our grandson we think is allergic to milk we think every time he has milk his stomach blows up an is sick in the night violent sick so what could we give him instead of milk
Lynn
i read online about concerns with possible lead contamination in dolomite powder. can you comment? how do i know where the dolomite was sourced and is the one you recommend from KAL safe?
Sarah
The KAL brand recommended in this recipe is tested for purity from lead and other contaminants.
Betsy
How long does the coconut milk tonic last in the refrigerator? I’m looking to introduce this in small amounts. My 16 month old is allergic to dairy and soy. He’s still breast fed, but I’m working full time and some help would be nice.
Sarah
It stays good in the fridge for about 4-5 days in my experience.