The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
Emjay
Whoa! Made the coconut milk a day ahead of using, placed in refrigerator, and the oil solidified into a thick disk. Doesn’t surprise me, but it sure makes it hard to use once refrigerated.
Jordan
Is the coconut tonic safe to substitute homogenized cow milk?
Sarah Pope MGA
Yes, it is a good choice to use over processed milk.
lisa
the canned coconut milk you link to has guar gum in it. Trader Joes near me has a coconut milk that is just coconut. Though because it doesn’t have guar gum it does solidify in the fridge. Is it preferable to just reheat the milk each use or just buy one that has guar gum? I’m not that familiar with guar gum but saw that an article it could be harmful. Thoughts?
Sarah Pope MGA
Guar gum is not a problem for the majority of people. https://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/xanthan-guar-locust-bean-tara-gellen-gum/
That said, if you can get coconut milk in a can without it, that is awesome!
Ivan
So good to see well informed people sharing good nutritious recipes!.. thank you!!… One question:
How long would these milks last in my refrigerator? (Wondering how to make it practical enough to fit in our busy working parents schedule… )
Sarah Pope MGA
They would last 4-5 days. You can freeze some if you like.
Cindy Cundiff
I used to make my own almond milk the old way, throwing the pulp away. What is the purpose of having the milk sit on the counter for 2 days since there’s another recipe for making fermented almond milk?
Sarah Pope MGA
It ferments on the counter … the other recipe is just a different method.
Ariane
Googled coconut milk tonic and of course a recipe from your blog popped up! My almost 2 year old has sick spells every couple months. Her ped recommended cutting milk for a while to see if it’s the problem. She has been on raw milk since 10 months. Anyways, is adding the collagen hydrolysate for protein necessary? She is a good meat eater. Was that something to make it similar to milk protein wise? I have all the ingredients in my pantry except that.
Sarah Pope MGA
You absolutely do not have to add the collagen powder. Coconut milk has next to no protein, so adding the collagen brings the macronutrients up to a level similar to what is in milk. Leave it out if you like, however.
Rebekah
I’d like to make the almond milk for my 4-year old who has a dairy sensitivity. I am curious, once it is finished, how long can I store it in the refrigerator before it goes bad? Also, can it be frozen? Thanks!
Sarah Pope MGA
Yes, you can freeze it. It lasts a few days refrigerated.
Christina Ruiz
Gave this to my 3 yr old that has been getting tummy aches after having milk. He tried it, I tried it, we both really liked it. Thank you very much for another great recipe.
Jerilyn
Hi…I’m wanting to make the coconut milk tonic for my little girl. I ran into one little glitch, I bought the Great Lakes Collagen and the serving size varies from the brand you posted. What I’m needing to know from you is how many grams of collagen should I add? Thank you for your help.
S marie
Hi, thankfully my 1 year old does not have any allergies. Is coconut water still the best alternative ? Is there anything that can be bought already made? Thanks!
Sarah
Commercial versions of these beverages are not healthy unfortunately. Even the packaging is quite toxic.