The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
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Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
Very helpful article, Sarah. Thank you.
I’m curious as to why you don’t add dolomite to the rice and almond milk recipes? I am weaning my 1 year old off of a dairy based formula. I have had great results using raw coconut oil for his eczema and with all of the radiation being found in milk I am looking for milk alternatives (better safe than sorry). Is it possible to let the coconut milk ferment as well for the added nutrients and enzymes? Which recipe is the do you think is most similar to whole milk. I love your blog and thanks for all the info.
What do you think of the commercially available refridgerated coconut milk that is available now? We have been using
Hi Sarah,
I just found your blog and I just want to say YOU ARE AWESOME. I can’t wait to learn more and more and more from you. Thank you for what you do and what you share! Keep up the wonderful, wonderful work 🙂
Christine
Welcome Christine!! So glad you found me! 🙂
Hey!!! I am going to try the coconut tonic when my daughter turns a year old, which will be in 2 months. How much of this drink can I give her a day? Is it the same as how much I would give her whole milk if I was giving her that? I just want to make sure I don’t overdue it and upset her sensitive tummy!! Thanks
Hi Sheri, a couple cups a day would be fine. More than about 2-3 cups would be displacing the good food she should be eating as well.
Hi Sheri –
How is it going for your daughter? I’m right where you were a few months ago as my daughter is 10 months old. I’m going with homemade almond or coconut milk – not sure yet.
Thanks for any tips!
Angie, did you ever figure this out? She stated a few times not to use this for a baby under 1 years old.
I wondered why you don’t add whey to the almond milk recipe? I have the big Nourishing Traditions book and it calls for whey. I have been wanting to make almond milk and came to your site to see how you do it.
Hi Cheryl, whey doesn’t work for kids allergic to whey and this article is about substitutes for kids with milk allergies, so I used lemon juice or apple cider vinegar instead. If you don’t have milk allergies, use whey – that would work great too.
Oops, allergic to milk I mean.
Thank you so much for the coconut tonic recipe. My 15 month old daughter is allergic to milk (we’ve also tried raw goat’s milk). I do have one question – how long is the coconut tonic good in the fridge?
Hi Sarah, it will last about a week.
Thanks for the quick response! I have one more question. I’ve noticed that after the milk has set in the fridge overnight, there are large chunks that have formed. When I shake the milk up, they don’t dissolve. What is causing this and can I avoid it? Thanks again!
Coconut milk fat solidifies below 76F so when you refrigerate, chunks will naturally form. A gentle warming in a pan of warm to hot water will allow the coconut fat to liquify pretty quickly.
Great, thanks so much!
Hi Sarah!
Our daughters are several months apart, I’m just now starting the coconut milk tonic. How much does LO drink per day – or did she drink when she first started it?
Also, I posted below about the richness of it. I’m diluting with bone broth in each bottle and she is taking it very well albeit a strange combination! Perhaps I shouldn’t be too concerned with it – but she is still taking in about 24oz per day. At about 18 grams (If I’m calculating correctly) per cup – it seems pretty heavy? Maybe not a big deal, though.
Hope you are still having success with this! It’s yummy!
Hi Sarah, thanks so much for this great site! I’m excited to try these.
I live in Florida, where my kitchen is warm enough that my ghee and coconut oil are usually liquid instead of solid, and there’s lots of mold potential everywhere. Should I still ferment the almond and rice milk for two days?
Thanks!!
Yes, it should be fine. I ferment for 2 days all the time and I’m in hot, humid FL as well.
Maybe a dumb question, but just curious why there are no added ingredients to these recipes like there is for the real milk substitutes–like whey, bifidus, sunflower oil, etc.
Hi Chris .. EXCELLENT QUESTION. I should have addressed this in the blog and I think I will make a change to indicate this. These are substitutes for a child older than one year who is allergic to milk. An infant still needs a formula and for a child allergic to milk, the hypoallergenic formula would be best:
https://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/2010/09/video-hypoallergenic-baby-formula/