The healthiest and best dairy milk substitutes to make at home for children and adults and why to avoid commercial versions even if organic.
Milk allergy affects approximately 2-5% of children worldwide.
Many times “milk allergy” simply masquerades as “pasteurization allergy”, which means that when a switch is made from processed store milk to farm fresh unpasteurized milk, the “milk allergy” magically disappears!
Why is this?
Pasteurization denatures fragile milk proteins and renders them allergenic because digestive enzymes no longer work effectively on them.
It also destroys lactase, the enzyme necessary for digesting lactose, the naturally occurring sugar in milk.
A simple switch to fresh from the farm raw milk solves both of these problems.
Beware the Plant-Based Milk Scam
In those rare instances when a child is truly allergic to cow or goat milk – even the farm-fresh variety, figuring out which plant-based milk to try can be a bewildering experience for a concerned parent.
Soy milk, also called soya bean milk, is clearly not a good option as high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) disrupt the hormonal development of young children.
Commercial rice milk is high in sugar and low in nutrition with little to no protein or fats to stabilize the blood sugar.
Even store-bought almond milk is not a good choice as it is also very low in protein and fat, high in sugar, and is not made from almonds that have been properly soaked/dehydrated first to eliminate anti-nutrients.
Besides all the issues with the ingredients themselves, the tetrapak packaging of these products is incredibly toxic.
To sterilize the container, boiling hot liquid is poured into the container that is lined with thin plastic before sealing.
While this results in a long shelf life, toxins leach into the product itself! In short, you are no doubt getting a hefty serving of petrochemicals with that plant-based milk.
The short answer is to never buy alternative milk from the store if you value your health.
Fortunately, making safe, healthy milk substitutes yourself is easy. Suggestions below!
Who Should Drink Non-Dairy Milk?
Before we go any further, an important point requires clarification.
Despite being healthy, all-natural, and homemade, the milk substitutes suggested below are ONLY for adults and children older than one year.
A baby younger than one that is not breastfed should be getting a homemade formula and if allergic to milk, homemade dairy-free baby formula is best.
Goat milk formula, sheep milk formula, or camel milk formula may be used instead if the allergy is only to cow’s milk.
One final point…never use these recipes to make plant-based or vegan baby formula.
Nutritious DIY Dairy Milk Substitutes
Below is a summation of the ones I recommend trying to see which recipe works best for your family!
Coconut Milk Beverage
This healthy coconut milk beverage is made with whole coconut milk so that it is high in good fats to stabilize blood sugar in a manner similar to full-fat dairy milk.
The base is ideally homemade coconut milk. However, if you must buy, I suggest this brand or this brand of commercial coconut milk.
Powdered coconut milk is also an option, but it is quite expensive per serving. This type of product also usually contains maltodextrin and sometimes digestion-irritating gums.
Cultured Rice Milk Recipe
This fermented rice milk recipe is lightly cultured and sweetened with raw honey.
If your child is allergic to coconut as well as dairy, traditional rice milk works well. Avoid the sugar-laden, nutritionless versions from the store packaged in toxic containers!
If you prefer nonfermented beverages, this wild rice milk recipe uses soaked rice instead of fermentation. This renders the rice digestible without the slightly sour taste typical of cultured foods.
Since wild rice is not technically a grain, substituting it for brown rice is suitable for those on a grain-free diet.
Sprouted Almond Milk
This easy recipe for sprouted almond milk is a huge step up from anything you can buy from the store.
If even more digestibility is needed, you can lightly culture the beverage into fermented almond milk. This additional step provides gut-balancing probiotics and even more enzymes.
Note that while this beverage is well tolerated by most people, those who are sensitive to oxalates would be better off picking one of the other alternative milks in this list.
Almonds even if sprouted or soaked are one of the highest foods in oxalic acid.
Sprouted Oat Milk
There are a couple of different ways to make healthy oat milk (never buy commercial oat milk!).
The first is this recipe for homemade oat milk using sprouted rolled oats.
The second method is this yummy beverage from soaked oat groats.
While you normally need to cook oats after soaking or sprouting if you will be consuming the entire grain, for purposes of beverage-making, the antinutrients are sufficiently deactivated with soaking or sprouting only.
The key point here is that the fibrous portion of the grain is discarded or composted when making oat milk at home.
While I have not seen causative research on this as of yet, anecdotal evidence from those with digestive disorders indicates that the effect on digestion is not disruptive or inflammatory such as would occur when eating uncooked or lightly toasted oats (even if sprouted or soaked overnight first).
References
Eat Fat, Lose Fat
Nourishing Traditions Cookbook
Why Almond Milk and Coconut Milk from the Store Should Be Avoided
Kendra
I stumbled upon your website last night and I must say I’m really enjoying it! Im still breastfeeding my 12 month old, but have had to supplement with Baby’s Only dairy formula and wanted a new alternative. I’ve have been learning a lot about raw milk and other nourishing foods & the ways to cook them (inspired by the Eat Fat, Lose Fat book) & I am excited to share these with my son. I was planing on making the coconut tonic for myself, so I’m glad to see he can enjoy it, too.
Thanks again & I look forward to reading more of your blog.
Many blessings,
Kendra
Kendra
Sorry for the editing mistakes. I think I’m running on about 4 hours of sleep and trying to type while trying to hold on to a wiggly baby 🙂
Heather Brandt
What is the reason canned coconut milk is used as opposed to other coconut milks? Is it considered less processed? Is it possible to use other forms of coconut to make the recipe as I’m trying to figure out what will be the most frugal for our family? Not sure about powdered coconut milk or coconut cream? http://www.wildernessfamilynaturals.com/category/coconut-products-coconut-milk.php
Angie
I just mixed up the coconut milk tonic. It’s delicious! I am confused, however, about the total fat content. I definitely don’t watch my soon to be 1 year old’s fat – but according to my calculations the total fat per cup is about 18 grams.
There are 77 grams of fat per can of pure coconut. The total amount of liquid in the recipe is about 34 ounces. Divide the two and you end up with 2 1/4 grams per ounce – multiplied by 8 and that equals 18. I could be mistaken? Whole milk has about 8 grams.
Any thoughts on this? I would think adding more water might not be a good idea b/c it would lessen the other nutrient totals – but – that is a lot of fat.
Angie
Hi Anne,
I have a 10 month old and will be starting homemade almond milk in a couple of months w/ added coconut for fats. Not sure if I’ll add the dolomite powder? Your babe can get calcium from food sources such as kale or even blackstrap molasses. I believe almonds do as well – but I’m not sure if the calcium comes through after making the nut milk. Have you thought about making almond milk? I may go to coconut – not sure yet – whatever she tolerates!
I haven’t researched enough as to whether her having dark leafies everyday will be enough. So hard without dairy at this point! Curious to hear other thoughts on your question.
Anne
I am looking for a coconut milk recipe for my 14 month old as a milk substitute. I was interested in this until read that dolomite powder is a high source of lead. Are there other calcium supplements that can be used that do not contain lead?
Belle
Geez! The world is making it pretty hard to do the right thing! Let’s all move to the woods.
Sarah, TheHealthyHomeEconomist
KAL brand is clean .. they test for lead from what I understand.
Shannon
How long does the coconut tonic last?
Shannon
Oops… just read above that it lasts about one week. 🙂 Thanks!
Daryl
I made the almond milk and it didn’t come turn out very good. It tasted more vinegary than almond. I can’t drink it. What did I do wrong? Or is it suppose to taste like vinegar? I am so disappointed. I was looking forward to drinking it.
Sarah, The Healthy Home Economist
Perhaps you would like the taste better if made with lemon juice.
Angie
…I forgot to add, I second Gem’s question regarding why the dolomite powder isn’t added to the rice/almond milks? I know almonds have natural calcium…but…just curious to hear your thoughts.
Sarah, The Healthy Home Economist
You can certainly add it if you like.
Angie
Hi Sarah,
Do you have an opinion on which of these three is the best? I’m leaning towards the coconut or almond milk version but I’m not sure. I have a few months to think about it – just researching for now. Perhaps rotating?
Sarah, TheHealthyHomeEconomist
Coconut milk tonic would be my choice.
Angie
Thanks, Sarah. Just seeing this now after a couple of months:)